Problems with Handicapped Restrooms

All restrooms are not handicapped accessible, and those that are tend to be used by people who are not handicapped.  A handicapped accessible restroom is larger which makes it more convenient.   It is natural for people to desire convenience, so this often results in others choosing to use the handicapped stall.  This results in the handicapped person having to wait desperately to get a wheelchair into that stall.  (I, of all people, do not need to be told that some folks may be handicapped even if it doesn’t show.)  I am aware of that and have written about that in articles about handicapped parking spaces.

But sometimes when small children are allowed to go into the restroom alone in stores and restaurants, they either can’t read or don’t know how to recognize the emblem for the handicapped.  Parents need to be sure that they teach children what this symbol means.

At times, some young girls go into the larger restroom stall together to laugh and talk about school, boys, etc.  Often they choose to sign their names on the wall.  Most are embarrassed when they come out and see someone waiting in a wheelchair.  It is hard for one who is waiting to resist speaking sternly to those who are obviously not handicapped, but these days it is not safe to vent one’s thoughts in public.

I beseech parents to teach your healthy children not to use the handicapped accessible stalls and unless you use a wheelchair or need the use of the handicapped bar, perhaps you too can leave those restrooms for people who physically need them.

It is so nice at the Hurley YMCA that they have handicapped accessible restrooms and showers.  When I feel strong enough after swimming, I go ahead and wash my hair and shower so I don’t have all that to do at home.

Another thing that I like there is they have separate dressing rooms for families with children under eighteen.  I don’t feel as uncomfortable about my body around other adults as I do in front of children and teenage girls.

I’ve had numerous unpleasant experiences in handicapped restrooms but am thankful to have the presence of one large enough for a wheelchair or scooter even if I do have to wait a few minutes and then bite my tongue.